Mens Chastity Device

How a Mens Chastity Device Makes Me a Good Slave

One of the things that I really enjoy about wearing a mens chastity device is the fact that I have no control over when I am allowed to take the device off. Now that may seem a bit odd to a lot of guys that are reading this, but it is one of the sexiest aspect of wearing this type of erotic or fetish item. Everything else in my life is as normal as you could possibly think, but when it comes to my sexual life, I prefer to be told what to do and when to do it.

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If you aren’t aware of the act of submission, then you really don’t understand anything about being a slave to a mens chastity device, either. This is something that you don’t just fall into because you saw it online and thought it would be fun to try, though. You have to be trained by a professional Dominatrix in order to get the full benefit of wearing chastity items all the time, and that is exactly what I do. I wear my chastity device day in and day out until my Mistress tells me that I can take it off. If I don’t, I tend to get a pretty severe punishment from her.

My Mistress was nice enough to allow me to write this little aspect of what it is like to be a slave wearing a mens chastity device so that other guys that might be curious about it would have something to look forward to. If you aren’t planning on being a slave like I am, but are still interested in what is involved, then please continue to read on. Hopefully, I will be able to answer some of your questions and possibly give you a bit of entertainment at the same time. After all, a good sense of humor is essential when you consider becoming a slave like I am.

Now, the first question you might have about being a slave wearing a mens chastity device is how long does it last? Well, the only answer I can give to you right now is, forever. I am now, and always will be, a slave to my Mistress until she has grown tired of me and trades me off to another Mistress. With that being said, I am married to my Mistress, and have been for almost ten years now, so the chances of her trading me off aren’t exactly all that high right now.

Now, being married to your Mistress might seem like a weird thing being a slave wearing a mens chastity device, but it’s really not. We get along just fine without having to go through all the slave related issues that you might think would go along with a relationship like this. In fact, there are only certain times when the slave Mistress aspect even comes up, and that is all scheduled by her. Now, we do have those spur of the moment aspects where she makes me do something for her, but overall, it’s not that big of an issues and we have a fairly normal relationship.

The second question you might have for a slave like me that wears a mens chastity device is whether or not I wear my device all the time or only while the Mistress and I are playing around. The answer to that question is a bit two sided. The first side is yes, I do wear my device all the time, but the second part would be no, if there is a special occasion involved. She doesn’t force me to wear my device if we are traveling, either, which can cause some problems with security check points and things  if you aren’t careful.

Now, when it comes to the rest of the time, I am wearing my mens chastity device the entire time. There are a few times, if I please my Mistress, that I am allowed to take my device off, but that is for a very limited time if you know what I mean. The good thing is that I get a bit more of those moments when I please her because she has trained me so well. Of course, I love wearing my device as often as possible, so it doesn’t bother me all that much if I have to wear it more often, either.

Some guys out there may think that most slaves that wear a mens chastity device are slovenly obese men that could never please a woman without being told how to. That may be true for some men, but that isn’t how it works with me. I am a former body builder that still stays in shape. I am also a professional in the workplace and I own my own international export/import business and do very well at that. So there are guys that aren’t living in their parents’ basement that are living this type of lifestyle, as I can attest.

My wife or Mistress as it were, was the initial instigator in my becoming a slave for her and wearing a mens chastity device. She has always been fairly dominant in our relationship, but a few years ago, she showed me a side of that dominance that really turned me on. The funny thing is that it was all done by accident one night while we were in the bedroom together. Ever since then, it has become a lifestyle for both of us that we greatly enjoy participating in and nothing is better than that.

Now, some of you might be wondering where I purchase a mens chastity device from, and I can tell you that I have found them all over the place. I have gone into numerous adult stores that have a fairly decent amount of options for the most part, and I have bought them off plenty of websites over the years as well. The one place that really grabs my attention and that I have purchased from more over the last couple of years has been This site is probably one of the best sites in existence for all kinds of male fashions including chastity items.

So, what words of wisdom can I impart on you beginning slaves out there that will make you want a lifestyle of wearing a mens chastity device even more? Well, I could tell you just how erotic it is to be bossed around by a beautiful woman or man, if that is what you are into. I could tell you that wearing devices like this will make you even hornier than ever once you get the chance to take it off. I could even tell you that you will feel as sexy as hell just wearing one of these items during the day.

The truth is, being a slave to a mens chastity device is probably one of the greatest things I have ever done in my entire life. I have control over everything I do during the day, but when I am at home with my wife, I have to give up that control to her. It is almost like a fantastic way of getting to relax and let all the stress from work just wash away. Loads of women out there take a bubble bath to ease their stress, I wear a cage around my cock, locking it in place, and do everything my wife tells me to do.

Now, this might not be something that every guy out there can maintain for any amount of time, but wearing a mens chastity device will have you changing your perception when it comes sexual contact. Once you start wearing items like this, you will see just how important it is to take your time and do things the right way. Of course, you can do this on your own, but it’s a lot more fun to have someone there to tell you what you need to be doing to please them.

Some of you might be wondering why any guy would give up his control to be a slave wearing a mens chastity device for anyone. The answer is that you give up little parts of your control all day long to people you don’t even know so why not give up your sex life to someone that you do know? Obviously, you don’t have to go out and find a Mistress or Master and dive right into it. You can take your time and have your partner learn to be dominant with you so that you aren’t thrown at the mercy of someone you have never met before.

There are a few things that you are going to have to remember about being a slave and wearing a mens chastity device. The first thing you need to know is that there are going to be times when you are extremely uncomfortable with what is about to happen. Because of this, there are things called safe words that you can use to let your Mistress or Master know that you aren’t ready for something. You need to make sure that both of you are aware beforehand of what those words are. If you don’t, then there could be a lot of problems in the future.

When it comes to picking out your mens chastity device, you need to make sure that it is the right size. Of course, this is only if you are the one picking it out. If you are left out of the purchasing aspect, then you will have to make do with what you get. But most of the time, since you are the one wearing it, you will be required to pick out your own devices. If you are required to, then make sure you buy one that fits or you are going to become extremely uncomfortable while you are wearing it.

You should also be aware that there will be a mens chastity device here and there on that isn’t going to make a very good choice for someone that is new to this lifestyle. Of course, that is only my opinion and that may not count as much, but you should trust me when I tell you to make sure you purchase something that you are actually willing to wear instead of going for something that just “looks cool”. You might find that getting a basic device is probably the best way to start out on this wonderful journey.

Now then, having sex with a mens chastity device on is a bit different than what you might think. You don’t actually get the chance to use your cock unless you have been allowed to take it off. Instead, you need to figure out how to use other aspects of your body and let your cock rest safely inside your cage. Once you have figured this little aspect out, you are going to find that you are a lot better at sex than you have ever thought you were, and that goes a long way to pleasing your Mistress or Master.

You will most likely discover that being a good slave and wearing a mens chastity device is going to take some time. No one out there is the perfect slave on their first day. It takes a bit of time to learn the ropes, especially if you are training your Mistress or Master at the same time that you are being trained, but it is well worth the effort that you put into it. You will feel a sense of completeness that you have never felt before once you learn everything you need to know or at least enough to please yourself and the person you are with.

Many guys that go into the slave lifestyle and wearing a mens chastity device have normal lives throughout the day. I am one of those guys even though I am wearing a chastity device the entire time. You can do anything that you put your mind to, like your school teachers and counselors have told you all your life, but sometimes you need to give up all of that control in order to really have some fun. If you can manage to do that, then you are going to see a whole new side to your life that you never knew existed and you are going to enjoy your time with your Mistress or Master that much more. Some things are worth doing and being a slave that wears a male chastity device is definitely one of those things.


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