Who Selects the Mens Chastity Device?
Once a man has entered the world of chastity, there are many questions that may crop up from time to time. One of the first of these is who is in charge of selecting the mens chastity device that will be worn for training? While that may seem to be a rather simple question, the answer to it may have several facets. As male chastity is something that is meant to teach men how to put their pleasure second to their partners or Key Holders, it may be an assumption that the Key Holder or Trainer would take charge of selecting the device that he or she finds to be the most effective.
That is true in a lot of cases. On the other hand, many Key Holders and their charges choose to work in tandem on some aspects of male chastity. This would include the selection of the proper mens chastity device. Both Key Holder and charge will sit down together and look over some options. This can be done online or they may even visit a local shop to see what is offered there. Obviously, going to a shop is going to alert everyone there that you are in the process of entering male chastity training. However, if you choose to do your shopping online, no one has to be the wiser if you don’t want them to be.
Then there are the Key Holders and Trainers that are nearly Nazi-like in their handling of their charges. For men that have someone like this in control of them, it is probably better to not even ask if they can help in the selection of their mens chastity device. The answer is going to be a resounding NO and you will probably be given some extra task to complete as punishment for your insolence. As you can see, it is a matter of personality and preference as to how involved you are allowed to be in your training and that includes helping to choose the chastity device you will wear.